The thing that I don't understand is all the people who have come here to say they've made the journey says the same thing. It takes a lot of work, it takes a lot of searching, it takes a lot working by yourself with no real help from anyone, but gosh darn it when you make it then you'll be one of us and can post here.
Why not take the lessons you've learned, the pitfalls you fell into, and the process you went through and make it available to those that come after you so they don't HAVE to slog through and find the answers to their questions on their own. Its not so black and white to be able to say that everyone who comes here that has nothing to contribute is asking for handouts. That's totally not true. More often than not they are looking for inspiration, guidance, and mentoring and yet they are usually met with arrogance, sarcasm, and ridicule.