I have the same issue with my server..but only when i log in from the same pc as the server is on..nobody else has this issue...i just cancel connect till it works..sometimes i have to exit wow completely and then start the wow.exe and log in again..i dont know of a fix though..and yeah it is a pain. I have actually seen alot of posts on it and not 1 solution yet. =(
Also to Cairi, it didnt help =( but seeing as your the only one who answered and tried to help im gonna shoot u that 1 rep power i have xD thanks..Im gonna try to back up the tables with quests,mobs,items and so on and reinstall again. Grrrr. rofl ty anyway.