Unable to connect even for host? WTF?!

[Peradur]

Geez.. enough of double posting? <.<

[Sounddead]

Umm this probably wont work, but first.

<Realm1 Name = "Dinging Swords"
Address = "gamingtransformed.ath.cx:8129"
Icon = "PVP"
Population = "1.0"
TimeZone = "1">

Change that to

<Realm1 Name = "Dinging Swords"
Address = "127.0.0.1"
Icon = "PVP"
Population = "1.0"
TimeZone = "1">

And change your realmlist to 127.0.0.1
Just to see if you can connect.

If you can, try maybe

<Realm1 Name = "Dinging Swords"
Address = "76.237.121.202"
Icon = "PVP"
Population = "1.0"
TimeZone = "1">

Im not to sure, because it looks like you have a
router and I have never really been able to set up a
server on one.

[nichoray10]

did u delete your die directive

[Sounddead]

If you read it... he commented it. >.<

[Sabens]

Problem is most likely your ports, or a firewall that is up. Make sure you have opened up the correct ports on your router, and that you have no firewall or antivirus software running.