Hello, i used the tittle search thing, and thought i found two similar threads, they used a different method.
Get the addon "atlasloot" some items there will cause the server to disconnect you, drag the window somewhere where it doesn't bother you. Then check the "query server" button, but don't hover over the item that DC's you! (this is different with servers i think). Ok when your about to die, just hover your mouse over the item that disconnects you, then when you log back in you wil be right on top of your body as a ghost.
ps..um this is my first thread that wasn't in the "questions" forums and if i suck sorry
(edit: this could work with other methods of disconnecting as well)