got some bloody weird custom quest issues

[arklanbk]

iv spent about 3 days working on this problem and iv had to admit defeat. i hope someone can help me out
i can make my own quests, which work fine.
i can add them to the creature involvedrelation table and i can hand them in to the npc no problem to complete the quest

the problem is the npc i get the quest from, creature questrelation doesnt seem to be working at all, or its working very weirdly.
im using an npc that already gives out quests so it cant be the npc flag, but when i add the custom quest to the npc in quest relation it doesnt show up in the game.
if i use the quest id that the npc already had the npc will give that quest and all the quests after that in the chain will work.

one other weird thing is that one of my custom quests u can get it, complete it and hand it in no problem (its further in the chain) but after i accept it it will give the quest objective of another quest. which is different to what i put in the db, its quest id is 20002 so im not overwriting another quest.

i made a quest to kill 6 ghosts and 6 skeletons but the quest only shows the 6 ghosts needed to complete the quest. when i kill a skeleton it says 1/6 skeletons killed like it should but its not showing in the quest log, just the 1/6 ghosts O_o

anyone got any ideas?

[Atlamillia]

Which repack did you use, if you did?

[arklanbk]

MANGOS 2.4.3 NOOBPACK BY 711
copy and pasted the name