Ok, my server is set up to be public. Friends can connect. my buddy in the room with me can connect. no issues for them, its on a different pc then my personal. But, I try to log on with my personal and I get " connecting.. " my firewall is down. no port issues either. so whats up with that? my realmlist is set to the same thing theres are. When they connect? Boom. in game. two of them. When I try? connecting.... and nothing. same install, same file, when I was hosting it on my personal I couldnt connect to it then... so I tried a diff one. When I lan straight to my buddy and host it myself we can both play.. but now.. " Connecting..." They can get in, I cant.