There was a previous post related to this problem, but it did not solve it satisfactorily, I believe (http://www.mmowned.com/forums/emulator-questions/272372-problem-connecting-regular-servers-not-private-server.html).
I have changed my realmlist to the one required by the private server i wish to access; however, I continue to connect to blizzard's servers. I am certain i have entered the realmlist in correctly, so it is not an issue with that. In the other post, the reason for this problem was given by Kiev,
What this is, is because of the fact that they integrated support for battle.net accounts no matter what the realmlist is. So its important that you login properly.
Unfortunately, I do not understand how logging in properly solves this problem.
A few notes that may or may not have anything to do with the solution to this problem: choosing a private server was an act of desperation after i failed to create my own. I tried the mangos repack by 711, as well as the guide on the mangos and arcemu forums for creating servers from scratch- due to my computer illiteracy I failed at them all (though the repack, i think, was a problem due to version issues). I do not believe that these are the cause of my problems, though, as evidenced by the fact that other people are experiencing this problem.
Even after deleting the realmlist altogether i still connect to blizzard servers without issue, which seems to be evidence that Kiev's assessment of the problem is correct.
I have deleted the wtf folder and cache folder; i have checked my config file to see if it is in line with the realmlist; it is.
Thank you in advance for the assistance.