Repacking Sql server

[stoneharry]

Alright well I had a search and couldn't find any guides on this so I came to here. I basically want to setup my database like 2d's so I can actually upload it and all they have to do is press start or stop; so I downloaded xampp and it's got the sql server in there, start up or stop. Now the reason I needed this is because other people are using database's like 2d's and then when they try to execute my world.sql they get errors saying the tables already excist because it isn't allowed enough packets. On a normal sql server like "C:\Program Files\MySql 5.0" you can just edit the my.ini and another to allow more packets then when you execute with sqlyog it works! I did this for a few friends; but on my repack I recently released it's failing because people cant do this or are using somone elses DB. Does anyone know how I can make mine into a DB they can start up etc without these errors? Is there something I can compile? Is there a hidden config in xampp?
Thanks ~ Salamanda

-- Fixed, had to make my self a new text document and config it then save as a my.cnf and put in data folder. Wont let me delete post now because of contributer bug =P