ok so ive connected to his server and all that good stuff, and i downloaded Navicat and i have all of my cousins info, but i cant figure out how to connect TO him, it just says unable to connect server host and whatever my name is, or something along those lines, sorry i cant give specifics, its late. My cousin said that its a very confusing program if you dont know what your doing, which i dont, im just getting started with all of it. please help, it will be much appreciated and thanks in advance:wave: