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[mchugh]

Ok Guys before i write this out this is no way a joke and i dont whant *******s writeing 1....It might be funny in words....but im worryed as hell ok here we go.


So i have 1 Brother ho is 17(he thinks he is a hard man and i have 3 sisters.....them 2 think they are to.But anyway...and the other one is 11....Ok the 11 year old is called Laura. Ok so Laura was born and the worst thing was My mum got killed in a car crash 1 year after we had her. Now that this had happen you Might as well say i Brong laura up. As my dad has to work all the time. Im like a dad to her and everything she needs help on are whants food are anything i would do it for her. But now she is *11* And like most 11 year olds they start to see body chage...So today at about 9 as soon as my dad whent to work she came in crying saying(pls guys not funny ok?) Blood came out of her woope. I just said to her,Dont worry about it,it happens to all young Kids, Now after i said that she gets mad and runs down stars crying...everytime i go neer her she tells me to go away. I dont no how to tll her what it is and why not to worry. so guys what should i tell here? I dont whant to go say anything to bad...are yet to sick.

Im now at the stage where im just going to call my ant round. Because i do not no what to say:O

Help

No jokes Guys. I will just report the post

[amrican93]

I think you should talk to your sis about this, it's normal.

If you are the "dad" for her that you say you are, then she maby would listen to you.

If she won't then i think it's just a problem some adult should take care about. Since most kids believe adults better than their brother.

Ain't your dad home from work at weekends?

Anyways you gotta tell your dad this.

[mchugh]

My dad dose not yet no. He is only off 1 day on the weekend and that Sunday...He owns a big working place but hes away to Dublin so i cant phone him....I can tell him tonight..But im just trying to tell my sis that it happens...but still telling me to go away.....First time i have ever seen her this upset

[Acila]

It appears "general chat" is definately that. This is obviously your business, but personally, this is hardly the place to seek advice for this type of issue, if it is as you say.

[mchugh]

And i dont think she well tell my ant anything as well.....

[amrican93]

A person needs help stop being such in sensitive.

[mchugh]

It appears "general chat" is definately that. This is obviously your business, but personally, this is hardly the place to seek advice for this type of issue, if it is as you say.

Yes i no that but there isent anywhere else to ask.......Im not going to go to some other thing i dont no of and say.......

[Acila]

I'm just saying that it's unfortunate that there are those on here that will probably not reply well, as he's hoping won't happen. So, the best thing to do, is find an adult female that can break it down for her (ie..family, neighbor, school, church, etc), anyone she knows/trust.

[mchugh]

umm ok ill try and see if my GF can do anything...tho i dinet whant this to go into such big issue of phoneing people around

[idusy-org]

You should defianatly have a female talk to her about it. Sounds lke your GF is the best bet in this case.

[Relz]

You should defianatly have a female talk to her about it. Sounds lke your GF is the best bet in this case.

hes right, get your girlfreind to tell her and if she still doesnt listen than get someone she trusts(preferably female) to tell her.

[laineter]

yeh i agree guys you should need a female that she knows a lot to tell her that it's normal for her. i think she would listen to them. is she ok now?

[mchugh]

yeh i agree guys you should need a female that she knows a lot to tell her that it's normal for her. i think she would listen to them. is she ok now?

Im not sure........she dident even lission to dad......My gf tried she sort of got ok for about 3hr...then started again... my dad said where going to call a Docter out so he can even say to her,

[REDACTEDSEPHI]

Well i would think that she should have learned it at school alrdy but mabey not idk otherwise just have a older girl talk to her.

[afiwarlord]

Talk to her, if she starts running away or says she doesnt want to talk to you.. dont let her run, and make her listen.

It will be better if you make her listen than if you dont.