Ok, well this is one of my first post's..... well my account is down and i had an idea, i have not acctuly tried it but its a thought. It's a macro that may increase the damage done by Faerie Fire (in bear form) therefore giving you more aggro. **Note - start in cat form**
/Cast Tiger's Fury
/cast Dire Bear Form (or Bear Form)
/cast Faerie Fire (Feral)
im not sure if the Tiger's Fury ability will cancel upon entering bear form but it might not. Good Luck