The repack I'm using is http://www.mmowned.com/forums/world-...ml#post1900863
I'm by no means an expert, but as far as I know, I've done everything that is needed to get my server online:
1. Edited the realmd realmlist to point to my external IP with Navicat
2. Got a DynDNS hostname, had my friend (who can connect to official servers just fine, so it's not his firewall/settings) edit his realmlist.wtf accordingly
3. All relevant ports are open according to PFPortChecker
The server works fine for me - I can even use the DynDNS hostname on my realmlist.wtf to log in, but my friend inevitably gets stuck in "can't connect". Any ideas would be greatly appreciated, since I'm pretty much stumped.