I see you have several issues.
Code:
1) We can’t figure out how to make it public and hopefully non-Hamachi. Admittedly, we haven’t spent much time on this. We have other things to fix before making it live.
2) We aren’t sure how to make more than one realm. We are running an ArcEmu server.
3) We don’t know how to put items in the database. We have several items and custom npcs ready for entry.
1 go here... Making your server public
2. Go here... Making a second realm
3. Go here.....Adding items into your database
or here.....[URL="http://www.mmowned.com/forums/emulator-server-guides/255709-noob-friendly-making-custom-items-import-em.html"].. Adding items to your database 2[/URL
or here..... Making items and adding them to database 3
If none of this helps I'll be sure and write my own guides for you..