LOL while waiting to hear back from Matt I saw this thread instead! I got a warning email back in Jan that someone was trying to login as me and failed 5 times. The IP address is from some EU country (maybe Sweden but I need to make sure).
At the time my password is kind of short, so maybe that is why my thread and my account was totally gone instead of just been marked as baned? But why I didn't see any tool that I can use to delete myself?