So, any of you ever watch those Warner Brothers cartoons?
Sometimes there's that one where the guy's having a tough time making a decision, he's got an angel on one shoulder, a devil on the other. It seems pretty obvious right? Usually the angel's the one that's going to give the good advice, and the devil's trying to get him to do what's going to be bad for him.
It's not always that simple though. Most times they're not really angels or devils, they're just friends, giving you advice, looking out for your best interests but not really understanding what's going to be best for you, so it kind of comes down to you. You have to make the decision yourself.